The leaves were beautiful and I was in the mood to take pictures and capture these cute babies of ours in this stage of their lives. Enjoy!
Saturday, December 4, 2021
Friday, December 3, 2021
Fall Break Family Bike Ride
Then we ate some lunch and called it a day!
Tuesday, November 30, 2021
Fall Break
I usually have big goals and plans for school breaks. This break I didn't. I even didn't make them deep clean their rooms... gasp! I made them do the library thing and I made us do one family activity (bike ride post coming next). Other than that they did what they wanted. (Except for Brock - he had a lot of missing assignments to work on and a lot of football)
Wednesday, November 17, 2021
Potty Training and other grown up things
I really don't have pictures to accompany this post, you would think I would take pictures about milestones like this, but it turns out I didn't for my older kids either. I tried to find a record for when I potty trained, moved out of high chair, moved to toddler bed, etc my toddlers and for all the record keeping I do - those things seem to elude me. Regardless or record though these things need to happen and happen they have... sort of.
Dane is a different kids than my others. There are so many factors that it is hard to know if he really is different, if I am different, or if it is just circumstance/situational. While I do spend quite a bit of time contemplating these factors I recognize that it doesn't really matter which one it is, I have to figure out how to HELP HIM.
We started with potty training and that went pretty standard and a week in he was great. But then he started wetting the bed at night and naps. I knew consistency was king so we just kept going. I tried every trick in the box. Nothing worked. One of the things we tried was moving to a toddler bed. That didn't help at all, but only created another host of problems. Eventually I surrendered and put him in diapers for bed time and naps. He didn't regress during the day, which was great. Noah went back in diapers for sleeping too, so I know it isn't a big deal.
Then the toddler bed. It also worked great at first, but after a week it went down hill quick. He was up and out of his bed constantly. When I put him down, in the middle of the night, early in the morning and all morning long. His whole personality changed. Our relationship changed. Some days I was over ly emotional about it - that didn't help. But I really went a few weeks being calm as a cucumber, embracing this stage of my/his life and stayed consistent and loving. That, also, didn't help anything. After trying ALL the tricks, I, again, surrendered and we put him back in his crib. He was happy. But within about 2 weeks he discovered he could climb out. It started all over again. Currently I have him in a sleep sack. He can climb out if her REALLY wants too. But he doesn't. So for now we have a happy toddler and a happy mom. But I recognize a pattern and I am going to have to learn to be flexible with him. He may be a two steps forward, one step backwards kind of person. We will see.