Our kids get friend parties every other year after they turn 8. So last year it was Megan's turn for a birthday party and becasue we were in lockdown from the pandemic I told her "when this is over we will have a party?" well... I don't even know if this is over yet - so she got to have a party this year. She wanted something simple - just her 2 best friends and her sister. She wanted an ice cream themed party. She was excited because her birthday fell on a Friday so she wanted her party ON her birthday and a slumber party. I told her I wasn't up for a slumber party but they could have a "late night". Then her friend Zoe was going to be out of town on her birthday so we had to bump it up to the week before - she was way bummed ("feels like I am wasting a Friday birthday"). But then it was a huge blessing becasue Megan got quarantined 2 days before her birthday and we would have had to cancel her party! She is the one that recognized the blessing and was so happy!
We started the party off at a "new" park (one we haven't been to before) and pizza.
Then we went to a frozen yogurt place where you get to make your own. There aren't a lot left and I was worried about the covid restrictions (that there would be fewer options or the girls couldn't do them their selves) So Jason heroically went and scouted them all out and taste tested the week before so we would know the best one to go to.
Then we came home and played an ice cream flavor taste-testing guessing game. We had 8 different "weird-ish" flavors of ice cream.
Then we played "pin the cherry on the ice cream". Megan made the game herself, and while she knew it was baby-ish she wanted to for nostalgic reasons. This may have been the hit of the party as they all had so much fun spinning each other around and being really silly. Having an 11 year old I have come to the conclusion that they think they are big and should do little girl things but really they are happiest when they are still doing "little girl" things like barbies, dolls, pretend, coloring, crafts, organized games, etc. They love playing with Dane because he does that kind of stuff and they think it is for him but really they love it too.
Because we had so many sweets she opted to not have a cake and have her cake the day of her birthday next week - so we sang happy birthday to the birthday cake flavored ice cream.
Then... SURPRISE... it was a slumber party! haha. She deserved it. Megan is wonderfully wonderful. She is hands down my biggest helper and easiest child right now. She never even complained about not having a slumber party. She asked, I said no, and she never asked again. That is worth its weight in gold for me right now.
Now for her actual birthday. Her whole birthday-day was about her cake. She came up with the design months ago. This cake required 3 layer chocolate cake, moose filling, butter cream frosting, fondant ice cream scoop, and ganache topping. It took literally all day. Luckily the girls didn't have school and helped with making, cleaning, and helping with the babies. Together we all pulled it off! But afterwards I swore I would never make such a labor intensive cake again.
This little boy could not keep his fingers out of it!
She loved it. Brock's birthday was the next week and said, "If its not too hard I want the same one for my birthday."
For her birthday she got these lights from aunt Ashley, a been bag chair from us "for her reading nook" and doodle kits from grandma Hanna. Later with grandma herbert she got money in her college account and a trip to Target where she picked out Legos.