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Saturday, May 15, 2021

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Here are my Facebook posts form the last 5 months.  I included comments this time, I don’t know if I always will or not.  I want a record of my posts because they are still a record.  I feel strongly that there are things that I should post on social media because I feel like Heavenly Father wants me too.  But I would rather have all my thoughts be on one place.  So for now I need to remember to post them here as well.  Until then… I will have to do these updates every so often.

I just went to go wash my face and go to bed and this is what I saw in the mirror. I almost laughed out loud at my disheveled state. You can't see great, but my mascara is running all under my eyes. Strangely my state didn't match my feelings - which is why I think I was so shocked about what was staring back at me in the mirror. Most days I look tired and done by the end, most days I don't have make-up on, hair done, or wearing anything but yoga pants, but today was a great day... and I still look like this. Ha
Today, Mother's Day, was a great day overall. Jason kills mother's day, I had a wonderful breakfast and dinner that I didn't make or clean up, he does most of the "hard parenting" for the day and I just get to read books and play games, I got an afternoon nap, an extra hour in the morning to read my scriptures, and sweet gifts from my children. But beyond all of that, I felt an extra deep appreciation for what it means to be a woman and a mother. I had a HARD day at church, one that sent me into the lobby in tears with my 2 littles. We are back to second hour with no nursery, Jason was teaching elder's quorum and my best friend, Krista, was teaching her first relief society lesson. I had been looking forward to it all week. We didn't last 2 minutes. I was mad and frustrated. All of the other parents were in the hall with their nursery age children and we just walked and walked and walked. It was almost all dads, because it was mother's day so the dads had the kids. I was feeling sorry for myself that I was out there with "the dads" and not in my lesson, that I had 2 babies with me, that there wasn't a nursery... I wasn't sure who I was mad at... I was just mad and kept holding back tears. Then I saw these little 18 month year olds who have never known anything but the pandemic, who have never been to nursery or story time or birthday parties, they have never sung together or done anything structured together. But they didn't care, they were just running and playing together. So I gathered them up, in the lobby of the church building, sat them in a circle and sang songs with them. We sang pop corn popping, do as I am doing, I am a child of God, head shoulders knees and toes, etc. Most of them looked at me like I was crazy, but after a few minutes they were loving it, and I was happy. I felt a sweet spirit come over me that THIS was the true gift of being a woman. This is what being a mother is on mother's day. Ministering to these precious children and using my talents to brighten their day and let their dad's go to Elders Quorum. Today I felt extra close to heaven... and yet I still look like this. I hope this is what qualifies me for such a wonderful place.
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I know how to mother because I was mothered. We teach by example... you taught me by example. My mother has the heart of a servant. A comment on a facebook post said (regarding mothers) "we are not servants!" and while I understood her intent I couldn't disagree more. To be like Christ is to be a servant. I love serving my family because my mom served me and continues to do so today. I love you mom. Thank you for showing me by word and deed how to live my best life.
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So glad my mom, Michelle Hanna, came to visit. We went to soccer games, dinners, played card games, and she read about 100 books to Dane. Thanks for coming!
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I have never had FOMO. I guess it just hasn't been in my personality. Until NOW! I have intense FOMO over travel right now... to the point of crippling anxiety. With everyone I know going either to Hawaii, Mexico, Bahamas, or even just Zion's I feel like our family is missing out on an opportunity to travel cheaply and with out crowds. I feel like if we decided today to travel it would already be to late and we missed the cheap/slow period.
Anyone else feeling this? (or are you all traveling?)
I feel bad about feeling bad becasue we dont really want to travel anyway because of the babies... and that makes me feel bad for a lot of reasons. But even IF we did decide to travel the NUMBER ONE reason for not traveling is I dont have the mental or emotional capacity (or time) to plan something right now. Anyone not busy and love planning vacations? Hit me up!
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  • Christina Marriott
    There's an actual new term: Travel Revenge. As in, "take that Covid- I have the vaccine, and you aren't stopping me anymore!"
    So, yes, we are traveling starting in May after we are fully vaccinated. But I'm definitely of the mindset, "take the trip." … 
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  • Becky Harshaw Tenney
    I love to travel. And plan trips. I’d be happy to help you.
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  • Karen Tenney Wall
    Me too!!! I love to plan vacations. The past year and a half I’ve spent planning vacations and cancelling them. I’d love to help!!!
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  • Mary Stevenson Hansen
    Utah is crazy crowded with tourists right now especially Zion National Park! Not sure about Hawaii or Mexico but the crowds here are not fun!
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  • Rosie Thornock
    There are lots of crowds
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  • Bryan McEwan
    Yes we have/are though we are trying to plan a family trip for later in the year but that brings it’s own stress and anxiety
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  • Rory Mele
    I don't feel bad about not traveling one bit. We are pretty content on waiting until a safe time....even if it won't be at its cheapest

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When I look at my grass and garden at the beginning of March it seems hopeless. I think "my grass/bush has died and we will need to replace it this spring, there is no way that is coming back." And then, like a miracle, it turns green and grows again. I love that Easter is in the spring. What once was dead is now alive. If 2020 (and 2021) has been hard on you, your family, or your children, I invite you to take the next week or so and prepare for Easter in a new way. A way focused on Jesus Christ and I promise that things that seemed dead, broken, or hard can be made new. Click the link below to get started.

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On the way to school this morning Michael Jackson's Black or White came on and Madison said: "this song is perfect for right now. I bet when it came out in the 50's they didnt even know that one day we would be fighting over our color of skin."
Wow... so much wrong... I didnt know where to start
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    Black and White was first sung in 1972 by three Dog Night. Michael Jackson was born in 1958 and could not of sung this song in the 50s.
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Ever wonder what a day is like with 6 kids?
Every few years I do a "day in the life" post on our family blog. And I just posted one today. I warn you, it is pretty long, but it pretty accurate.
If you are going to read it some quick facts: My kids are 13, 12, 10, 9, 2 and 8 months. Jason is working from home (thanks Covid) and I am a stay at home mom. The girls are in school full time and the boys are hybrid (at the time I wrote the post - but they just went back to full time on Monday). We are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I think that is all the back ground info you need. Enjoy!
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Over spring break we watched home movies - from birth of Brock to present. It was a lot of fun. But I learned some things about what makes a good home movie and wish I could go back and redo the last 14 years. So for any of you starting out, here are my thoughts.
Babies are cute, but you don't ever need to film them for more than 1 minute 30 seconds. 2 minutes is even too long. It is hard becasue in the moment you think its adorable - but honestly until they are walking just 1 minute a time is enough- even jabbering.
We film things like Christmas, singing "happy birthday", or opening presents, or looking for Easter eggs, really no one wants to watch that and it rarely tells you something about your family or personalities. I mean... sometimes you will get something great... but for a few years our ONLY videos were Christmas, birthdays, and Easter. It was so boring.
The BEST ones are just having the camera on the children playing when they don't know the camera is on. Or even on the whole family - I have 1 or 2 at family dinner or a family game and they are a treasure, I wish I had done that more when they were little.
Only 2 minutes of sports footage. tops! Even the one playing won't watch more than that.
Thoughts? What do you like filming... or better said.... WATCHING?
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  • Allison Frazier Ashley
    Totally agree. My dad just gave us digital copies of all our home movies and I can’t tell you how often I hit fast forward to get through a tour of whatever cabin we were in, endless shots of elk in RMNP (we lived in Arkansas then, so a novelty I guess… 
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    (1) the videos of people when they don’t know the camera is on them, because it’s their truest self, and
    (2) the videos of the “here, hold my beer!” moments, because those are the ones we sit around the campfire and laugh at for years to come!
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    Jamie ^^^ I’m pretty sure you get that reference, living on Bucknell and all, but I’d be happy to explain it if needed! 😜
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  • Heather Christianson Braley
    My favorites are often the kids taking videos of themselves. Have you heard of 1 second a day? I’m trying it out, and am getting more like 3-4 seconds a week, but you just might like it. It’s an app.
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  • Karen Bourne
    These are great tips!!
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Happy pi day. As mentioned earlier we have done dark chocolate pepermint pudding pie, lemon, cheesecake, today is rhubarb and pumpkin (although pumpkin is for breakfast tomorrow - on orders of Jason).
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We are supposed to get about 25 inches of snow this weekend and I am so excited! I have been sort of missing covid - lockdown, I love when we were all just stuck at home together. So I'm kind of pretending that our spring break next week, along with a snowstorm, is a covid lockdown - which means you can just bake any whatever you want, right? It is also Pi Day on Sunday! It is our family's favorite holiday, so in honor of my fake lockdown we are going to make a pie a day! We have chosen lemon, apple, rhubarb, chocolate, pumpkin, and cheesecake, which I know is not technically a pie, but it's round, so we're pretending. We're also going to watch home movies. Bring on the Storm!
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  • Allison Frazier Ashley
    I’m excited too! We’re making banana bread and brownies (or Allen is anyway, he’s the baker) and I’m making soup. Levi is setting up a camera to take time lapse footage of a measuring stick we made for the snow! Bring it on!
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  • Lara Chatterton
    Is your lemon pie a lemon meringue, or just lemon? We are strict observers of Pi day too, but I only have pumpkin, and apple on my for sure list. The kids are asking for lemon meringue, but I’m not really feeling the meringue.
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      haha - that is so funny Lara Chatterton we had the same discussion last night - they wanted the lemon but no meringue or crust. So we are trying something new. I am doing a vanilla oreo crust with the lemon curd and then whipped cream on top. i will le… 
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  • Marisa Beck Neyenhuis
    My kids are sad to miss the snowstorm haha
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  • Heather Mullins Estep
    That sounds fabulous!!!
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  • Kate Foster
    25 inches?? Crazy! Sounds so fun!!! And so yummy!!
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  • Lucinda Maughan Armstrong
    We're having peanut butter, razzleberry, and a meat and bacon pie for dinner.
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  • Randy Herbert
    (does jason still get his pumpkin pie ?? )
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Today was perfect. It checked so many boxes!
Doing something I love✔
Finding out I am still pretty good✔
Sharing what I love with my kids✔
Watching them enjoying it and being good at it✔
Spending one on one time on ski lifts✔
Having just fun with them as a group amd individually✔
Watching the kids bond with each other, encouraging each other, and helping each other✔
All of us pushing ourselves, conquering fears, and trying new things✔
Brock and Madison became buddies and skied most of the time together because they have the same style - fast and furious. Noah and I cared more about form and style - he got good quick! This will go in my top 10 favortie days!
*to answer some questions. Megan didnt want to go and stayed home from school with Jason and the babies.
We went to Echo Mountain and it was perfect. Cheapest, closest, smallest, and we basically had the mountain to ourselves. I grew up skiing but I havent skiied since I was 17 (almost 20 years) except once in 2008. Brock and Noah went once with the Deacons in our church last year and this was Madisons first time. We didnt do lessons but watched a bunch of youtube videos. By the second run everyone was confident and having fun.
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      • Michelle Hanna
        Katrina Taylor,Jamie Hanna Herbert, Megan McGary, this is Joe and it was a lot of fun taking you skiing in Colorado. It was at Granby Ranch ski resort just outside of Granby, CO. We should do it again and take all your kids.
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        • Megan McGary
          Good to have a name for the memories! That was so fun!
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        • Katrina Taylor
          Michelle Hanna hi Joe!!! Thanks for creating such fun memories for us!! We should all go skiing together!
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      • Karen Bourne
        Hip, hip, hooray!! I love, love, love this!!
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      • Heather Mullins Estep
        That is awesome!! Sounds like it was perfect!
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      • Mary Jane Smith
        You are the best mom! So fun!!! What great pictures!
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      • Charity Van Dusen Hanson
        Some of my favorite memories with the kids are doing this!! So glad you got to go!!
        I’ve never been to Echo mountain. How were the runs? Were the kids really doing black diamonds their first day?!
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Going skiing today! So excited! I couldnt sleep all night. Its been a few decades - wish me luck!
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  • Marisa Beck Neyenhuis
    Have a great time!! So just you and 3 kids? No Megan?
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    • Jamie Hanna Herbert
      Megan didnt want to go. we let her stay home from school also and help jason with the babies. It was a win for everyone
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  • Michelle Hanna
    I am so excited for you guys, I want to hear all about it⛷🎿
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  • Karen Bourne
    Woohoo!! So happy for you! Do a run for me please!
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  • Betty Herbert
    Have fun!
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  • Kasey Herbert
    Do not break a leg.
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  • Kate Foster
    So fun!! I want to take my boys! Call me when you get back and let me know how it went!!
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  • Levi Mele
    Enjoy!
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  • Sabrina Millar
    Yay! Have a much fun! I took it back up after 20 years and osteoarthritis in my knee. I didn't know how it would go, but it didn't take long for it to all come back, doesn't bother my knee, and I love it more than I ever did growing up.
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  • Alyssa Fichter Okerstrom
    Wow! How fun! Hope you guys had a good time.
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  • Allison Frazier Ashley
    Fun!! It’s been a few decades for me too, but we’re going to try to get the boys up there next year to try it out!
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  • Whitney Riddle Ennis
    I went with my boys a couple weeks ago! First time in 10 years or so 😁. I hope it all came back to you quickly to keep up with the kiddos!
**Lesson: Don't always turn to google/search engines when seeking for answers.
Story: This morning during my scripture study I had a burning question. I needed an answer, I needed to know it was from God. I was seeking His mind and will for my life. A phrase came to my mind. I knew the phrase. It was from Isaiah, but I didn't know where exactly, but I immediately felt a desire to read the whole chapter. Eve was already awake in her crib, so time was limited. I thought, "I can google the phrase and in 2 seconds I can find the chapter." But for some reason I went to the bible instead. I felt the need to flip through it and find it myself, even as I reached I thought, "this could take me forever to find". And... as the story so often goes... I literally opened right to it. Isaiah 54. Now I know this phrase came from God. This is my answer. I had 2 witnesses, the phrase coming to mind and the immediateness of finding it. Had I googled it I would have read the chapter and felt that it was "nice" and "maybe an answer to prayer" but by NOT googling it I got a second witness that this is from God. And what greater witness can you have than from God?
I was putting in numbers for our 2021 budget. Dang a family of 8 costs a lot of money! I was feeling depressed and overwhelmed by the numbers - annoyed at how little we were "saving" every month. I looked at that savings number and realized that number used to be HUGE to me and now I was annoyed it was "so little". I needed perspective.
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  • Randy Herbert
    after 15 yrs of 'saving' we had a year's worth of salary in the bank for those unexpected things .. like for example .. unemployment with a house payment ... 
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  • Jennifer Brunson
    This is so sweet. I remember those days too. I needed this today.
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  • Whitney Riddle Ennis
    I love how precise your budget is, and that you still have those numbers going back to 2009! As long as you're that cognizant of your spend, you'll always come out alright. Well done.
We played Trivial Pursuit's tonight. Check out Madisons question for the win! We were all screaming! Some because it was so unfair, some because we made it into the borad game (we're famous!) and some because they are are claiming our name is actually Mormon! #itsthechurchofjesuschristoflatterdaysaints!
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School is hard. My girls are IN school. My boys are are home doing 100% remote. This is not good for them... especially Noah. I emailed the principal last week to tell her Noah was struggling and they have bent over backwards (her, the counselors, and teachers) to help us every way they can. He is no longer doing school the way "they are supposed too" but it is what is going to be best for Noah. I think teachers and school administrators have saved the world during this pandemic. I know they love my kids.
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  • Jolynn Miles
    Good luck. This is so hard!
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  • Christina Marriott
    Teachers are super heroes. And, moms are, too.
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  • Megan McGary
    I’ve been so grateful and amazed at teachers and administrators!! Love them all for all they are doing!!! Happy to hear you reached out, they helped and that things are looking up.
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